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"I am such an awesome person that I am going to get close to this girl just so I can have sex with her and when she decides I am a nice person and tells me she’d like for us to be friends, I am going to be passive-aggressive about it and complain that I have been ‘friendzoned’ and that most women are bitches who don’t appreciate nice guys."

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Every “nice guy”, ever (via pizened)

That’s what I’ve been saying. The things they do may be sweet and wonderful but once feelings are involved the situation is different. They aren’t doing things just out of kindness but because they have feelings for the other person as well. They do these thing because they like them and to better their relationship with that person and a lot of guys may not realize that. They don’t realize theyre doing things out of desire. And when the other party can’t reciprocate their feelings, often time the admirer throws their feelings at the person theyre vying for. Nice guys aren’t as nice as they think and need to stop playing victim.

/rant

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Source: cruentamors

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well here are my two cents on nice guys.

i think there’s a huge difference between being a good guy and being a gentlemen. don’t get me wrong they’re both great guys who’ll treat you good. but there are things that these nice guys forget. these nice guys think that just because they’re nice guys these girls will like them. they think that just because they do these things for the girl the girl will/should like them. what good guys forget is that they need to “woo” the girl. they need to establish an attraction and build a connection. cause essentially attraction separates a guy from being just a friend or a potential significant other.

i dunno. i’ve heard these self proclaimed “nice guys” talk sometimes and say that they do all these things for her or they know all about her. but in the end it’s not about what you do or know but how you make her feel.

i’m also thinking about these nice guys. maybe they should think about what they’re doing and what they could do different. or even who the hell they’re even liking. cause it seems like you’re pining over the same dumb females. who knows maybe there’s a nice girl pining over them.

but that’s just my two cents.